Madhuri and my ABs

OH MY GAWD! Two more weeks and I am off to Redang! My abs are still so small and hidden! After my consistent abs workout for the past month, I would have to say that my lower torso is the opposite of prominent. Damn, how do you get abs like Brian's? SHITE!

Anyway, since Leo posted a blog about Madhuri Dixit a few days ago ... I tried plan B. B for Belly, B for Bollywood, B for Bounce like Madhuri Dixit. YES! She is a fantastic dancer and since crunches may not be the efficient way to get the abs out, I now subject to Bollywood Cardio!

Here are a few samples.








and my FAVOURITE *SCREAM* ... Devdas, Aishwarya Rai ~ and Madhuri ...




Damn! I didn't know that Bollywood song is so danceable. GANAS! PANAS! Move aside Lady GaGa!

Quick Updates

I've been missing for close to a week from my blog. I apologise for this absence as I was away busy with many things that doesn't earn me an income! Haha. Anyway, I am feeling really tired and sleepy but I KNOW there is a need to just blog something before my readers (I am so surprised and thankful to have known that I have quite a few) think I am somehow dead ... or in attempt to create another abandoned-dead blog.

Well... so lets do this in short point form sentences and with a brief description.



Eva Diva Bday

Last saturday, I was running around. Went to 3 universities to gather information about Master studies requirements and also to an audition for hair commercial. Will skip the brand since I am most likely not getting it. After running around, I finally settled down when Grace 大姐 picked me up and we were hunting for Eva's gift at Pyramid. Mind you, it was not an easy task but fairly enjoyable one. I was in heat ... shopping heat and knowing that my allowances would not allow any compulsive spending spree, I made Grace try on so much tops, it was unbelieveable.

At the end, we manage to bought a one-piece vintage dress for our dear friend and off we went back to bath (with such amazing speed), dressed up and headed towards Delicious at Dua Residency again! Haha ...



Eva brought his man and we had lots of fun, chapping and bursting into laughters! Happy Burfday eh!



Lily & Lester's Wedding

Then it was crazy-wacko Lily and lawyer-extravagant Lester's wedding at Ritz Carlton Residence. I tell you! This is definitely my first-upperclass-rich couple wedding. Everyone was appropiately dressed, ladies and girls in dresses, gowns, and beautiful fashion threads. Men on the other hand was in suit, bow, tie, tux and anything casual I saw was a guy in button cowboy shirt. Crowd was awesome, well spoken and very socialable. I manage to even meet new people and network myself! Unbelieveable. The preps was beautiful and simple, of course thanks to 二哥. That boy really have talent I tell you!

He also designed two dresses (available upon request) and it was red-carpet standards! With swaroski blingblings and light weight silk pieces, the dress flows with elegance no one can find at bridal shop. Here is a pic of Lily, being the greek goddess as what we called her (she calls it virgin mother) ... and another one of her in red dress ... the devil's samba as what I called her (she calls it bloody slut) ... hehe



Just to clear things out, I am not the wedding photographer of the event ... so no pictures to see! Haha. I clearly was there to just snap pictures of the decorations (as part of helping my bro with his portfolio) and enjoying myself with great company. Of course, I will also remember the part where Lily's mum grab my ass and was trying to hook me up with her male secretary! Haha. Aunty! You are awesome and young !

To the newlyweds, get a baby quick! Haha



Weird Encounters in Gym

I have also been to gym this few days and been getting some weird encounters. I told Sara and Kok about it, even Ethan knows too. I tell you, some uncles really need a big slap in their face. Really man, have some class act and please for the sake of your own mentality and maturity, show a little respect, class and dignity when it comes to seduction. Ok, the better word to use here is cruising.

In total, there have been 3 uncles hitting on me. One of them winking me and clearly his eyes were directed into the shower cubicles, I told him "no" with a stern voice and walked off. Yesterday, there was this other uncle ... with a tummy waist line close to the size 36 and definitely needs to consult a skin doctor for his skin problem ... walking in and out of the steam room, trying to eye my private parts. I stood up and adjourned to the sauna. He walked in a few minutes. I walked out back to the steam and he followed. We did this a few times and I went straight to the shower. He of course, went to the opposite one and started coughing ... Ignorance here works best

Just today, another uncle ... this one was a regular cheapo cruiser. How I know? Kenny told me about this flubber. He cracks a conversation with me, or was trying to and again my "cibai face" immediately reacted to a "Not interested". I walked away and showered. He went next to mine and started sticking his butt to the glass wall and let out numerous mild groans. A few more groans. I became disgusted. GOSH! If the first groan didn't get any reaction from me, DAMM IT, WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES IT MAKE IF YOU LET OUT 10 MORE?

Some people just can't hold themselves in the mirror. I am not saying that I am stud or something or that I fancy such attention. It's a compliment if someone says you are charming, good looking etc ... but it's an insult when someone just wanna wank you off in the gym.

I just wish this people would wake up and go for their own league. Why can't the right person do the sweet ol thing of courtship, proper dignified and respectable act of interest and passionate hints? I would enjoy it provided its from the right guy!



How about dad?

Took dad to Assunta just a few days ago for his second round of check. Apparently he is all well. His leg still swell alot but the doctor reassure us that it is only normal because his veins are broken and will require some time to grow back, perhaps 2-3months. Unless it is painful and swell to look like an elephant leg, a surgery is dued. Well, whatever it is, dad's leg is swelling without pain and definitely doesn't look like an elephant leg.

He is going back to Malacca tomorrow to file police report, correcting and adding details to the previous one made by his boss. Of course, he would be accompanied by close friends and also mum's safety amulet!


Well ... that's about it and as of work ... I'll skip it. nothing much to talk about work anyway. Yawn Yawn. Time for bed!

张惠妹 - 如果你也听说

What a touching and beautiful song by Ah Mei. She never fails to impress me!



Lyrics and Translation

突然发现站了好久 不知道要往哪走
tu ran fa xian zhan le hao jiu bu zhi dao yao wang na zou

还不想回家的我 再多人陪只会更寂寞
hai bu xiang hui jia de wo zai duo ren pei zhi hui geng ji mo

许多话题关于我 就连我也有听过
xu duo hua ti guan yu wo jiu lian wo ye you ting guo

我的快乐要被认可 委屈却没有人诉说
wo de kuai le yao bei ren ke wei qu que mei you ren su shuo

夜把心洋葱般剥落 拿掉防卫剩下什么
ye ba xin yang cong ban bo luo na diao fang wei sheng xia shen me

为什么脆弱时候想你更多
wei shen me cui ruo shi hou xiang ni geng duo


如果你也听说 有没有想过我
ru guo ni ye ting shuo you mei you xiang guo wo

像普通旧朋友 还是你依然会心疼我
xiang pu tong jiu peng you hai shi ni yi ran hui xin teng wo

好多好多的话想对你说
hao duo hao duo de hua xiang dui ni shuo

悬着一颗心没着落
xuan zhe yi ke xin mei zhao luo

要怎么负荷 舍不得 又无可奈何
yao zen me fu he she bu de you wu ke nai he


如果你也听说 会不会相信我
ru guo ni ye ting shuo hui bu hui xiang xin wo

对流言会附和 还是你知道我还是我
dui liu yan hui fu he hai shi ni zhi dao wo hai shi wo

跌跌撞撞才明白了许多
die die zhuang zhuang cai ming bai le xiu duo

懂我的人就你一个
dong wo de ren jiu ni yi ge

想到你想起我 胸口依然温热＊
xiang dao ni xiang qi wo xiong kou yi ran wen re


许多话题关于我 就连我也有听过
xu duo hua ti guan yu wo jiu lian wo ye you ting guo

我想我宁可都沉默 解释反而显的做作
wo xiang wo ning ke du chen mo jie shi fan er xian de zuo zuo

夜把心洋葱般剥落 拿掉防卫剩下什么
ye ba xin yang cong ban bo luo na diao fang wei sheng xia shen me

为什么脆弱时候想你更多
wei shen me cui ruo shi hou xiang ni geng duo


如果你也听说 有没有想过我
ru guo ni ye ting shuo you mei you xiang guo wo

像普通旧朋友 还是你依然会心疼我
xiang pu tong jiu peng you hai shi ni yi ran hui xin teng wo

好多好多的话想对你说
hao duo hao duo de hua xiang dui ni shuo

悬着一颗心没着落
xuan zhe yi ke xin mei zhao luo

要怎么负荷 舍不得 又无可奈何
yao zen me fu he she bu de you wu ke nai he

如果你也听说 会不会相信我
ru guo ni ye ting shuo hui bu hui xiang xin wo

对流言会附和 还是你知道我还是我
dui liu yan hui fu he hai shi ni zhi dao wo hai shi wo

跌跌撞撞才明白了许多
die die zhuang zhuang le cai ming bai le xiu duo

懂我的人就你一个
dong wo de ren jiu ni yi ge

想到你想起我 胸口依然温热＊
xiang dao ni xiang qi wo xiong kou yi ran wen re


如果你也听说 有没有想过我
ru guo ni ye ting shuo you mei you xiang guo wo

像普通旧朋友 还是你依然会心疼我
xiang pu tong jiu peng you hai shi ni yi ran hui xin teng wo

跌跌撞撞才明白了许多
die die zhuang zhuang cai ming bai le xiu duo

懂我的人就你一个
dong wo de ren jiu ni yi ge

想到你想起我 胸口依然温热
xiang dao ni xiang qi wo xiong kou yi ran wen re

如果你想起我 你会想到什么
ru guo ni xiang qi wo ni hui xiang dao shen me

Kenny's Bday ...

Happy Birthday Kenny! After a night out with Kenny, having Kampachi buffet at Equatorial Bangi and chilling at Delicious Dua Residency, I am finally home ... with a strong determination to rest. Sleep well and most likely practice it. Sorry Erwin, had to skip clubbing this time around!


HAPPY BURFDAY!

The reason is because, according to my latest health test I lost 3 KG ... compared to my previous fitness screening test, which was done a month ago. Previously, I was gaining weight and progressively getting muscle mass (hooray!) and maintaining body fat at 10% which is healthy (double hooray!). But when today's report came in ... I lost both body mass, muscle mass and body fat ... which has raised the alarm on both my fitness alert and my trainer was worried as well.

We narrowed down the factors to only either; diet and rest ... which is most likely the latter caused by sleeping late, getting stress and etc. So, I am going on a fast-track regime for managing tough schedules and proper rest along with heavy protein and carb based diet. Hopefully I can regain my weight in 2 weeks time and resume to train again at my comfort rate.

Maybe the health screening machine spoil hor ... LOL

PS - Dad did his first check-up and everything is on the bright side. He is beginning to walk more often and currently nursing back at home. Hopefully in a week or two, he will be able to resume his daily activities and consider staying in the office when working, instead of travelling.

What's spinning, boy?

My very own HOT CHART, compiled based on the frequency the song is played on my itunes, me singing, grooving to it, looked it up at Youtube and how it is stick to my brain;

UPDATED as of today, starting with number 1 and the top 10 is:

1. Black Eyed Pea - I gotta Feeling
2. Rihanna - Hatin on the club
3. Katy Perry - Thinking of You
4. James Morrison (Ft Nelly) - Broken Strings
5. Black Eyed Pea - Boom Boom Pow
6. Lady Gaga - Pokerface
7. Jennifer Hudson - Spotlight
8. Pussycat Dolls - Jai Ho
9. Lenka - The Show
10. Taylor Swift - Love Story

Hmmm ... this is just obscure ... how come most of them are old song?

I want it too! Mum wants it too!

Dad is back home today! I love it when people work efficiently. We are talking about synergy here! Had a great day seeing the hospital and insurance company cooperate and discharge my dad. The usual 3 hours minimum procedure was cut back to 2 hours, thanks to Mum's contact in ING and Dad's delightable attitude. The nurses all loved him, spent time to say goodbye ... jealousnya aku!

Dad even gave me a lecture in the car about "genuinely being nice" which is why he got tons of people visiting him during his stay. People ranging from family members, distant friends, bosses, suppliers, x-colleagues, former bosses, former suppliers and even factory workers, wow! Some of my friends, neighbors who do not really know my dad wants to visit him as well. Unbelievable ... and my dad summarized the reason is because he is one truly nice guy ... hmm ... true in many ways ...

Anyway, since dad's bandage has been taken off ... my mum and I both have been contemplating to get the doctors at Assunta to do cosmetic surgery on us. Dad's face looked like an angel, although he skipped having MJ's nose ... he look absolutely terrific, no scar, no post accident marks and FLAWLESS SKIN. The surgery replaced his old skin, the one with large pores and pigmentation due to old age with new baby-butt like skin that matches his skin tone and all! SHITE! MAGIC! Better than miracle water! Damn those plastic surgery! Why are they so expensive!

I gotta feeling

Yeap! I am so into END now ...



Fergie looks good with black hair. Very scandalous ...

Talking, Coffee and Singing

You know you found the best of friends and they are as important as your family when;

1. They spend time making you smile and laugh at ungodly hours
2. They call everyday to check on you when you need support the most
3. They offer financial help and moral support over a cup of iced mocha
4. They find time to have dinner, drinks even when they are tired from work
5. They give you unbiased, logical yet supportive advises
6. They do not judge and force you to accept their opinion, nor their principles
7. They make the smallest effort to get you going on with life with open arms
8. They sing Kareoke with you till late morning and still can joke at 4am to make you smile


Diva, Angel, Devil ... That is what we called ourselves back in our great ol'school times

Those are the traits of my two best girlfriends, also my former housemates back in Melbourne. Three different personality living under one roof, reunited at dinner over Indonesian Food, Coffee over Gloria Jeans and finale at RedBox about 1am ... Can you imagine the damage we have done to our throat!? You girls are the best!!! I am looking forward for our next "concert" again. Love you a'll

TRES RIOS @ Assunta Starbucks

I am sleepy, tired and emotionally wrecked. Ok, maybe the right word would be mentally exhausted. Yesterday's 7 hour sleep was a blessing but I am still feeling instable inside. Of course, for my dad and family ... I am kinda the strong, independent and little pillar, as how K would call it - but I am slowly breaking and falling inside. Not to worry, dad is fine and recovering from the operation ... Today's post is about me feeling giddy, fatigue and all over things.

Sigh ...

Well ... I am going to skip the details cos my brain ain't functioning that well but this picture definitely helped me to smirk and brave through a little ... wonder when can I model for something similar, perhaps not the brand but the concept ...



Those delusional dreams ... ok ... back to work in Starbucks Assunta, hope mum comes quickly. Really just wanna sleep it off ... again ...

The 5 to 6

Aftermath are hard to get by
Gone the days swallow flew, the winds howl and scented grasses
Here where death hollows
There where people come
Brewed and grew into strangers walking down paths, ignoring one another

Forgetting past, moving present
The winds howl with unscented grasses
Here I stand, looking into a light
There I looked, into a brightness that's dark
Illuminated and shone into milestones of infinite tragedies

Yet, moments come
Scented grasses, holes uncovered
There you seek
Here you hide
Gone again the days swallow flew, wind and scent.
Peace again, at last.

Dad's a lucky man

Thank you to all my friends who had supported my family through this tough time. On behalf of my family and my deepest appreciation, thank you for the good wishes, prayers said, support, contacts and also the most important your care and concern for my dad.

I am glad to say that he is now in safe hands of professionals at Assunta Hospital PJ after transferring from the GH Melaka ... which was all Hell and Bullshit...

Dad's a real lucky man and definitely my survival idol. After being hit by a oil trailer, where he and his partner's vehicle somersaulted a few times before stand still. Witness who saw dad crawled out of the vehicle was stunned at his action seeing how the vehicle was recked. Both Dad and his business partner survived the fatal crash, after a trial to avoid the speeding oil trailer at the Melaka Highway.

Being hospitalized in Melaka General Hospital was definitely more trauma than the accident itself, I will cut the story short and list down my dad's experience after admitting into the ER at 53opm

1. Dad was admitted into ER at 530pm, Mum arrived at ER about 8pm ... Dad was not treated, wounds were fresh, bleeding profusely, dad were not speaking properly, ALL wounds even the basic abrasions were not treated

2. Uncle who arrived with mum complained about delayed treatment, a few times between 8pm-10pm. Only cotton was provided to clean the wound, Nurse did not attend and Mum had to do it herself. Imagine how would you feel

3. Sis and I arrived about 11pm. Dad was in ward. Visited him ... shocked to see no wound was treated. Still bleeding as the same. Mum claimed nothing was done except that he is now in the ward rather than the ER. Nurses told me that no doctors were on duty. Exact words were, only one was on duty who can do stiching ... and he is now busy delivering a baby. Funny?

4. After checking into a local hotel, mum and I returned to the hospital about 230am to find dad STILL UNATTENDED. nothing was done, blood flowing onto his pillow, bed and all. Confronted nurses, same answer were given. My first warning was if dad has not get any treatment by morning, I will killsomeone.

5. Sis and Mum met dad in the morning about 8am, dad is in "claimed" stable condition but wounds were still bleeding and such. Dad still muttering, and mum wanted dad to be transfered back to KL. Commotion when GH trying to delayed the transfer, claiming they are doing their best for dad when all I see is dad's face bleeding, dirty, dried blood stain and no wounds were bandaged.

6. I flipped at a Nurse literally making her cry when she refuses to answer me in polite tone and professionally. Also, she tried bitching with me about dad's condition ... which looks bad to me, saying she is doing her best ... after 20hours. I did not literally slapped her, but I am sure my words were painful enough for the senior nurse (older than me by a few years) to cry and looked for a doctor.

7. Doctor reassure that medical report will be out in 3 hours, and I can discharge dad with an Ambulance (on book - thanks to my friends) about 1pm.

8. 1PM ... found out that mistake was done on XRay for the head. Going to redo XRay. Reason was because they think that the XRay taken earlier was not precise and had found foreign object in dad's brain. Maybe just XRay problem. Later, proves that the latest XRay showed nothing severe. WASTE TIME

9. Trainee nurse almost made mistakes in giving dad a jab for pain killer. One, did not use sterile and antiseptic gauze before the injection and two, injecting on the wrong side of the arm. Both mistake were quickly picked up by a nearby nurse who warned her wrong doings. I was there, watching with suck anger ... Nurses gave me a "I'm New" smile

10. Nurse forgot to book a radiologist for my dad's abdominal injury. Unbelieveable

11. Abdominal scan was not done and was placed in a long que ... Dad may had to prolong his transfer back to KL.

12. Eye doctor requested dad to visit eye clinic to check on his injury, nurses assisted dad up from bed and blood was flowing through his wound. Had to stop the action as it was not properly examined and doctor was blamed by nurse for this. Nonsense, both should die

13. Many trainee took dad's condition as an opportunity to learn ... disturbing him everytime. Was almost slapped by me ... and my sister too

14. Broken toilet pipe, overflowing water from the toilet into the ward room ... shared by 8 patients.

AND of course, there is more. Those are the few ... So ... Dad was FINALLY transfered when me and my uncle caused some commotion and drama at the ward. At the end, dad was release with the Ambulance I hired, speeding down 180km per hour to KL. After 24 hours in GH Melaka ... they only provided me with 3 page report of his medical condition after a gruesome accident. When we reached Assunta, the doctor dispose the letter with note that crucial info was not given and treatment was lacked.

Assunta only took 2 hours and 15minutes to clean dad, get him a ward, top to toe report scan (CT and XRay) ... with all his wound bandaged. Now, that's money worth paying ... why? Cos lives are invovled.

TO HELL WITH GOVERNMENT HOSPITAL. Sorry to those who are good. Your peers did not live up to that standard.

Anyway, Today's report show no brain nor nerve damage. The severe laceration beneath his eye and also at his nose will be going through a plastic surgery soon. Abrasions on his legs, skin, face and also body has been treated and on medication. For the abdominal, knee and leg contusion, I hope the swelling will go off soon and pose no danger.

PS - If ever you / a relative is in an ambulance ... and you are conscious ... please tell them to send you to a private hosp, or else if you ended up in a local government hospital, you might as well visit Hades down in Hell.